You can’t do this. No. You are too weak. You aren’t strong enough.
                      Really, are you sure…I think I can…
Oh no sweetie, really, it isn’t safe for you. You will get hurt. You will fail. You aren’t able to do that.
                       Okayyyy….maybe you are right. Maybe I can’t. I shouldn’t do this.
It’s best if you stay where you are. This is where you belong. This is where you are safe.

Oh, this is a conversation that sounds all too familiar to me. To you too?

For years I’ve been listening to that sweet voice within. I believed its words were true. I thought I couldn’t. I thought I wasn’t strong enough. I believed when it told me that I wasn’t able to reach for my dreams.

Then five years ago my life took a little turn. And then around three years ago my journey and work with my ego – that sweet voice I meant above – started. Ever since then I’ve been growing a real intense relationship with my ego, because for me, that’s just what it is, a really good friend. He might not always have my best at heart, but all he wants is to keep me safe and protected. It’s just that I won’t be reaching my dreams if I always stay in my comfort zone. It took me a little while to realize this and it took me a little bit of work to figure this out and before I dive all in, I want you to hear this:

You are enough.

You can do this.

You are so much more than the stories your ego is telling you.

You are so much more than the illusions your ego creates.

You can rise like a phoenix.

Your dreams can come true.


Right now your ego might be freaking out…listen closely, what do you hear, deep inside? Is there this inner critic telling you that you can’t? That those words aren’t true?

I hear you sister, I know! I’ve been there.
But here’s what I learned and what I want you to discover too:

  • Whatever your ego says, it is an illusion.
  • This inner critical voice, the one that is holding you back, it isn’t true. There is another voice, a sweet voice deep within. And that we can choose to follow too.
  • Who are you to reach for the stars? — The better question is: who are you not to?
  • You are strong. So much stronger than you think.
  • You can create a life beyond your wildest dreams. Little by little. Step by step.
  • Yes, you can.

This is what I truly believe in. And I want to help you to discover this too. I am not saying that this is an easy ride. No, it might not always be. But you don’t have to do it alone. I am here and I want to help you.

I will work with you to help you to first of all get to know that voice within, your ego. To discover the stories it has to say and to uncover the beliefs that hold you back. I want all three of us, to sit down and have a chat. All parties invited. Because truly your ego is your friend, not your enemy. All it wants is for you to be safe. It’s just that the safe space isn’t always where we want to be.

I will support you as you are growing your relationship with your ego, as you are discovering what is blocking you from being your happiest self. And I want to support you to realign with the other voice within, the loving voice, your intuition, your inner guidance.

A few weeks I felt this call, this deep call to teach what I’ve learned over the past years, all that I’ve learned about myself as I’ve been growing a relationship with my ego, ever since I first got introduced to it. My life isn’t all glamorous now, nope, sorry, this is not what we will work on, but we will work and change the way you look at what’s happening, the mindset you have. And that truly changes everything. It changed everything for me. And I know it will change everything for you. The idea for this program was born. The truth is, my ego tried to keep me from doing this, telling me that I am not good enough, that I can’t do this, that I am not a coach because I have no certification. I stopped listening. My intuition was stronger, it won. And I am so (you have no idea) excited about this! I am so excited to start this!

I want to teach what I learned. I want to help as I can. I want to support you as much as I possibly can. I want to kick start this. And here’s the little secret I kept until now, I am doing this for free. You don’t have to pay me a cent. All I am asking of you (and that is already a lot) is your trust. If you just happened to stumble upon my page, get to know me. Read my blog post, see if they resonate with you. Watch my Instagram story for a couple of days, that’s where you will see my most authentic self. And then decide if I am the one you want to work with, if you trust me, if you believe that I can help you.

Here’s what The Ego 101 – Summer Coaching Program is and what it will include:

The program is set up as an intense 4 week program. During this time we will work 1:1 together. We will discover your ego get to know its stories and take first steps towards realigning with your intuition. I am offering this internationally, and while this post is in English, we can also work in German. Because of the intensity that a 1:1 coaching involves and because I want to be fully 100% there, the places for the program are very limited and at the time I can only offer to work with 3 people.

All the details about the program:

The Ego 101 from July 17th 2017 until August 27th 2017: This is the time the program is gonna take place. Our calls will be scheduled individually.

4×60 minutes 1:1 calls with me: Every week we will come together for a 60 minute call via Skype.  

A pre-program workbook that will include all that I’ve discovered about the ego. It will guide you through the questions you might have from the beginning. It will help you to get started for our work. I’ve included my resources, my ego principles and a little worksheet to get you started. And of course, lot’s of space to jot down notes.

A worksheet that I am asking you to fill out every week and that we will send each other via email. This will help you to stay on track with our work, keep track of the things you witness and the growth you are experiencing.

Optional guided meditations: If you like to mediate or if you would like to try it, this is something I would love to include in our calls. This is optional and we can give it a try, but it isn’t a must. Just something fun to explore for both of us.

Unlimited email support. This might go without saying, but of course I will always be there for you. During those 4 weeks, but also after. My work doesn’t end after our summer program is over. No, I am always there for you. And of course I would be so honored to hear from you after we work together to see how things are going and where our work is taking you.

I need to say this too. This work is something we have to do together. I can only help until a certain point. Since this is about you, you have to be willing to do the work. I will help, support and guide, but in the end, you will have to do the work.

Are you ready?

Then all I am asking for you is to apply. Simply sent me an email until the 1st of July 2017. Tell me about yourself, as much or as little as you want. Who are you? How old are you? Where do you live? Do you have  any experience with the ego? And most important: What do you wish from gaining from working with me? Do you already have an idea what our work could be focused on? Is there anything that is on your mind, that you would like to talk to me about (like a breakup, struggling with your job, problems with your family)?

Simply sent me an email at ronja@sothisiswhat.com with the subject “The Ego 101 – Summer Coaching Program”. And I will get back to you asap. I cannot wait to get started!

Sending you lots of love!

Thank you for all of your support and love!

xx Ronja

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